Namaste good peeps

Do you know that feeling when you think you have finally met the one, finally found potential bae, future husband basically your everything but then reality happens and you realize that all the baecations, dinner dates and shopping sprees you could have had won’t happen because you lack that Tlaudi thing. My loves don’t feel embarrassed about it, I was also a victim but now I’m stronger because I survived which means you also will.

You are probably asking yourself what catfishing is well people don’t stress catfishing is basically luring someone into a relationship by pretending to be someone you not.

How does one get catfished

Catfishing happens in many ways honeys and it’s certainly not a victimless crime and I won’t lie there are many problems caused by it.

1.  If they can tell that you are vulnerable
2. Disclosing intimate information easily and always willing to help no matter the   situation.

Dangers of catfishing

catfishers don’t know the dangers they cause not just the dangers but also the damage they do, the danger that stood out for me when that looser catfished me was emotional damage it’s dangerous because it involves all the raw emotions associated with love and relationships because here I was thinking I’ve found my prince charming LOL even planned my wedding that’s how serious I thought it was I was so emotionally invested to that hypocrite.

The damage they cause can even lead to suicide I won’t lie people I considered that I was so embarrassed, angry at myself I felt so dirty and cheap.

How to prevent it

 By not giving out personal information no matter how whipped you are.

Don’t trust anyone especially if you don’t know them from face to face encounters the way people lie these days it’s on another level even politicians can’t compete with these lies we are told people.

Less emoji’s more face time tell potential bae to show you his face.

Remember that there is no such thing as the perfect person if it looks too good to be true than it probably is child trust your instincts.

Where can you go for help

The nice thing is that we are students but if you are not its fine no need to panic because I’ve got you boo.

Students can call or text the cyberbullyhotline any time, day or night isn’t that cool or call saveTnet they are always ready to help.